TRUTH: We all need more self-love.
Complete self-love means to be at one with all aspects of the self.
That, in a nutshell, is the University of Life. To solve the self-love riddle is to graduate.
Ergo: if we are still here (and we are or we wouldn’t be reading this) there is room to continue to deepen our self-love. (We’re all in the same class, learning the same lesson!)
TRUTH: Most of us need to learn HOW to love the self.
We may realize a need, or sense a lack, but we aren’t sure of how to do things differently and somehow ‘arrive’ at a more self-loving place. We’re willing, even eager to change. Yet we don’t know how.
Finding this new self-loving way of being is the MOST important thing we could do, especially if we are entrepreneurs or solopreneurs – oh, heck! – if we’re HUMAN! (Again, looks like we’re all in this together!)
TRUTH: We’ve been taught habits that are the OPPOSITE of self-loving.
In other words, it’s not YOU, it’s what you were taught that is giving you the agita. It’s what you’re consuming that is gumming up the works.
It’s as if someone told you to fuel a Ferrari with sugar water. There’s nothing wrong with the car – far from it! – you’re just giving it the WRONG FUEL!
Your dreams are getting stalled – wrong fuel!
You can’t get up to speed – wrong fuel!
Sometimes you can’t even get the car out of the garage – wrong fuel!
Wrong fuel, wrong fuel, wrong fuel!
Every time we feed ourselves with a negative, critical, or judgmental belief, it’s like putting another teaspoon of sugar in our fuel tank. Even the most powerful engine could not withstand that onslaught: it would cough, gag, sputter and stall.
Again . . .
It’s not you. It’s what you’re consuming.
And that’s the good news.
The self-esteem issues we suffer from are LEARNED. It’s a painful lesson, for it separates us from our true nature. Yet if it’s learned, that means it’s not who we really are. It means we can unlearn those damaging ways and learn more self-loving habits, and that’s what this self-love journey is all about.
Self-love is so cool, because it underlies anything and everything we try to do in life. Thus, it means that when we get this one piece right, everything else falls into place.
So whatever your specific goal, self-love is key to your success.
Think of your attempts to achieve your goal like running a race. There you are, at the starting line. Somehow, you’ve come this far, dressed, rested, and ready to run.
However, before the race begins, you start to feed yourself the wrong fuel. You . . .
- critique your past preparation
- compare yourself to the runner next to you
- negatively predict your performance
- obsess over how far away the finish line is
In other words, you talk yourself out of your best performance. These learned habits of mind tell you that you’re not enough, or too much, or not worthy.
Each of these ideas and statements has a crippling effect on your performance. With each negative, judgmental thought, it’s as if you are adding a ten pound weight to your legs.
And then you try to run.
The negative thoughts require heroic effort to overcome, or they pull you down and out of the running. Even if you manage to run the race, you are working way too hard to make this a sustainable effort, let alone an enjoyable, rewarding experience. It’s as if you are pushing yourself back as you try to move forward.
Now, imagine flying free towards your goal!
You fly like an arrow. You’re fully in the present moment. Each step is unencumbered by anything which does not serve. You’re free to achieve full momentum, you’re overjoyed to attain the full potential of this moment, and reap the rich rewards of this opportunity.
It’s possible. There has never been a better time on our planet to release the debilitating ideas that may be holding you back from your fullest potential. There is so much help available to you.
It is time to be free.
Here are two very special invitations to help you deepen your self-love.
Choose the one that calls to you.
Make this your time to move into to the freedom, joy, abundance, ease, grace and accomplishment of living YOUR BEST LIFE.
1. Join the sacred Self-Love Circle.
Together we. . .
- release what’s holding us back.
- deepen our connection with our true divine identity.
- strengthen our self-loving ‘reflexes’ so we can make self-love our way of being in the world.
If you feel, like I do, that this is the time to shed whatever’s been holding you back and be your best self now, then this is your opportunity to join with a group of like-minded souls sharing that very same path.
Give YOUR self-loving journey the importance it deserves. See how your life opens beautifully!
Join the sacred Self-Love Circle for only $2 – https://www.atozhealingspace.com/circle-self-love-with-reba-linker/
2. Work with me privately as part of my 100 Healings Devotional Project.
These pay-what-you-wish sessions may be used for a TIME Heals session©, or for a Universal Sphere session®. Both these healing modalities benefit you through a deep connection with Spirit and benevolent cosmic energy.
Either modality will give you an infusion of divine energy and inspiration to be your best self, and release that which no longer serves you.
Book your private session now. 10% of all payments will be donated to the Ocean Conservancy.
Reserve your 30-minute appointment: https://my.timetrade.com/book/C2B5R
Please send payment via Paypal to Reba@RebaLinker.com.
We can take courses, and invest thousands in coaching, yet our core beliefs always override any training. Address the heart of the matter – self-love. Schedule your pay-what-you-wish 30-minute private healing session: http://rebalinker.com/life-coaching/100-healings-devotional-project/